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Let’s Start Writing

Everybody can speak, but not all of us can make batter writing. How? There are no ideas to tell you, but it is through a long practice. The easy way what I know copy and paste from internet. Easy and fast, but not good attitude. Don’t follow me!!!Practice make perfect. Here there are a several tip to share together and give us advantages to upgrade our writing skill (from internet). There were;

1. Read books written by great writer. You would not know how to do it if you do not read good writing. Everybody starts by learning from master and through them; you find your own writing. Read as much as you can. Pay a close attention to style, mechanism and content of the writing.

2. Do a lot of writing. Try to write every day because the more you write the better result you get. Writing is a skill, you have to keep practicing it to polish your skill. Write things for yourself, blog or other publications.

3. Always note down ideas that across your mind. Always bring a little notebook with you and write down ideas as your writing materials. Write down something you heard that move you / make you feel touching. Having these ideas written down can inspire you or go directly into your writing.

Only three simple tips, but hard to do. Right now maybe we can try to practice and someday it will proved. So, LET’S START WRITING. What across your mind, you can note, and try to share with us with your good writing in this blog.

ME & my LiFe

Every day people will get through the new experience either it is a good or bad experience. It is a kind of stuff which every human will be gain since we born. With an experienced we learns to live the life and learn how to make decisions that affect our whole life. I also had a good and bad experience that thought me the true meaning of life. I love to travel and see the beauty of the nature. During weekend or leisure time, my friends and I are love going to hiking and do the outdoor photo shooting. Normally we are going in a group consists of more than five persons. If there is a much time we also going for camping. We went to Bukit Soga at Batu Pahat, Bukit Broga at Semenyih, Gunung Berlumut at Kluang and Gunung Pulai at Kulai and while hiking we also do the photo shooting.

F.A. to .......

This is a story about my life experience. When I was a little girl I have my own dream just like the other kids. I was dreaming to be a flight attendant. I was thought that when I am being a flight attendant, I can fly with the flock of birds while looking at the clouds. But it was just fantasy in the childhood. All of the memories during childhood used to be sweet memories for me. Today, I am still trying to achieve my dream even the dream of present is not the same as the dream of childhood.

Can you forgive and forget? - By Molja Aja

When we reach 25 years old. We actually at the end of our teenage life. People will call us adults instead of teenage and our body might be change from S size to L size. We also might change our personality, appearance, and might also our way in talking to others. But all these thing will have no effect to you or others surround you as long as you still you in term of attitude. People with bad attitude always being avoid by others and if you are bad and you try to change to a good person, remember BE FRIEND WITH OTHERS WHO ARE GOOD and AVOID people with BAD ATTITUDE.

Which sea does not have waves, which part of the earth is never touched by the rain? All human cannot run from making mistakes in their life. Whether the mistakes been done by someone to you or you make a mistake to your friend. Doesn't matter. For me, forgive each other is the best solution when we counter a problem with them. BUT, not FORGET what have they done to me. Because for me, by forgiving others, I actually forgive my self for wrong things that I have done before. To forgive is learning to love my self, to love my past. Learning that all what happened is a part of me. When I love 'that part', I can love your self and I can truely love others and move on with my life. But not forgetting what the wrong doing as part of my lesson in life. By not forgetting, I will always remind my self to be more careful in future. So, can you forgive and forget? or you are same as me, always forgive but not forget?

Lesson in life-"don't judge a book by its cover"-by Molja Aja

“Don’t judge a book by its cover”. Have you ever heard this idiom? It means not to judged people or things by what they look like from the outside. May be you will wonder why I start this article with this idiom. Hmm.. let me share a bit of my life lesson about some people judge me by my appearance.

This is a story about 3 years ago. I’m use to be a bit harsh girl, ride my scooter to college and never wear any feminine outfits like my other friends. One day, after finish my tenpin bowling training at Summit BP, I went to BP Mall with one of my team mate to buy a birthday present for my beloved sister for her coming birthday. I want to give her a set of international brand perfume.

We entered a perfume shop at Pacific mall, but suddenly few eyes of the sale girls look at us like we are some kind of alien entered their shop. But I just ignore them and I start looking at the brand that I want. When I saw this brand which i really love. I ask one of the salesgirl to give me a tester of that perfume. With the arrogant face, without a smile and unpleasant approach. That girl give a tester card. Suddenly, one of her friend approaching her and they start to speak to each other in Chinese language,“ look at them, wearing that kind of shirt,but want to buy these kind of expensive things, does they have money or not, hate to see these kind of people. If don’t have money, don’t look at these thing lor, wasting our time rite?!” and then they laugh to each other.

I’m really shock hearing what they said about us. Lucky me I can speak and listen to Chinese language very well because i used to study in Chinese school. I’m also not a kind that will burst or explode with this kind of situation. With a smile on my face, I said to the salesgirl “ Miss, i’m sorry but i change my mind. I don't think your perfume suit with me. But thank you by the way”. Then I pull my friend’s hand and went to another perfume shop in front of the previous shop. There, I bought two set of the perfume that cost me more that half thousand. After that, I went back to the arrogant salesgirls and I kindly said to them in Chinese language. “Excuse me miss, may I have a word with both of you? You can’t treat your customer like you did to us. Even our dress or outfit not as pretty as your others customer, you still have to treat us equally. Don't judge people by what they look like from the outside. Thank God that i’m in a good mood today or else, I might seeing your manager to report your attitude. By the way, that shop in front of you have just receive RM600 from me and luckily yours don't”. I smile at them, turn back and walk away.

Suddenly both of them call us and block our way. They apologies to us for their bad attitude and gave us a mini bottle of branded perfume as a apologies present. I forgive them and remind them again not to treat others like they treat us.

That is one of my memory and experienced in life. A lesson for me too, not to judge others by their appearance. But judge them by their heart and attitude. Don't ever under estimate others.-

~Molja Aja~

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